How to modify WORKPLACE environments to include principles of gender equality-part 1

WORKPLACE RULES must be modified to eliminate chauvinistic societal practices.

workplace environments and workhours for men NEED TO BE MODIFIED with
an acknowledgement that men MUST AND WILL NEED TO DO THEIR SHARE OF
CHORES, CHILD CARE AND HOUSEKEEPING TOO.

workplaces must stop supporting chauvinistic lifestyles and societal
patterns by expecting MEN TO WORK ODD HOURS or inhumanly long hours,
because it is expected that all men will ofcourse have a female
concubine assistant at home in the form of their wife to take over
their share of chores or parental duties, leaving the men FREE to have
such impractical work hours.

If men were to take part in all chores at home and have HALF OF THE
PARENTAL caretaking chores assigned to them too, while their female
sexual partners have paying jobs outside homes, AUTOMATICALLY, all
workplaces must modify workhours to accomodate the fact that ALL ADULT
WORKERS irrespective of their gender , will and should have equal
chores at home and equal work burden outside of the home as well.


if workplaces continue to have inhuman work hours for men, which
automatically assume that while a man CAN AFFORD to stay away for
weeks or months away from his home and yet afford to have his kids
raised, because HIS FEMALE SEXUAL PARTNER will automatically be
burdened with FULL TIME PARENTING just so that he can keep up with
these impractical work rules which DON'T ACCOMODATE for the fact that
males are parents too and the kids expect their dads to PARTICIPATE in
raising them,women will never get to experience or assert their rights
to a complete life which involves doing something with their
personality and talents and have a REAL PERSONALITY and individuality,
outside of CLEANING A BABY'S BUTT or cleaning floors and kitchen
counters.

IF MEN EAT, they must cook, if men copulate, they must parent, if men
shit, they must clean their toilet.Can't dump all the menial drudgery
jobs as a burden on your female sexual partner and take up all the
creative fun jobs yourself.UNFAIR!

just like, if a woman is good at math, she must be able to become an
accountant or math whiz, without JUST BEING REDUCED TO CLEANING A
BABY'S BUTT no matter how much of a math whiz she is, because , her
husband's workplace expects him to work inhuman hours and hence, the
first person whose life quality gets the "curbing effort" is the
female sexual partner of the said husband.

TRUE GENDER EQUALITY BEGINS AT THE WORKPLACES OF THE HUSBANDS who are
making their wives do their share of chores .
When wives stop carrying all the burden of their husbands chores,
HUSBANDS will automatically request for their workplaces TO MODIFY to
accomodate a world full of gender equality

#workplace_rules, #chauvinistic_workplace_setup,
#workplace_must_accomodate_male_parenting, #male_parenting,
#gender_equality_at_workplace, #dads, #parenting,
#gender_dynamics_in_parenting,

DOCUMENTARY MARATHON MANIA-'EARTHLINGS' DOCUMENTARY REVIEW

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This blog is part of the "DOCUMENTARY MARATHON MANIA" series on this blog .
I am a 35 year old female physician,smart and beautiful and here in this series,I review this documentary from a thinking human's point of view ,from a documentary and film maker's point of view,from a sociological and gender dynamics point of view and from a scientific and artistic point of view AND also a physician's point of view.
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DOCUMENTARY MARATHON MANIA-'EARTHLINGS' DOCUMENTARY REVIEW

Why am I reviewing a documentary series?
Because documentaries are films too.They are edited a certain way to put forth a certain viewpoint.
Before I start the review series I must tell a few things about myself.
I was born to a vegetarian mother,a 'lactovegetarian' and so,all through my childhood i grew up on vegetarian food-mostly ovolactovegetarian food and I managed to grow up tall and strong and beautiful and intelligent too! proof the pudding,if you will! :))
I went vegan in 2008.
I only watched this documentary a few days ago.Just last week!
I didn't decide to become vegan because I watched 'earthlings',but,apparently,a lot of other fellow vegans went vegan because they watched this documentary??
Needless,I had to check it out,Just for curiosity sake.
Why did I decide to go vegan then,you might ask?
MOSTLY FOR ETHICAL REASONS...though,luckily,going vegan also is environmentally friendly and healthy too..
I mainly went vegan because of ethical reasons.
When I was in ninth grade, I used to watch this TV series about animals and pets and such each week.One afternoon,maybe it was five in the evening and I watching TV alone, amidst all the household buzz going on around me..and they showed how PAINT BRUSHES ARE MADE...
Paint brushes previously were solely made of ANIMAL HAIR...mostly pig hair AND they were PLUCKED OUT OF A LIVE PIG ONE BY ONE because they want to have the hair as long as possible and plucking it is the only way to get the longest length!
THEN,they proceeded to show the whole video of it...where the pig was squealing and crying and weeping, while it's hair was being pulled out,one by one..
i JUST SAT THERE TRANSFIXED..the crying of the pig, resounding in my head,days after that!
that memory sat in my head forever I suppose.
in 2008,I finaly went vegan.
I thought I was gonna crave and miss eggs and cheese like crazy,BUT THERE WAS NOT ONE SINGLE DAY when i craved them after I became vegan.Your body only has cravings when nutritional requirements are not being met.If you plan your meals nutritionally complete,you will never crave things!
By the time i went vegan,I had already become a physician and because I also did two years of food biochemistry and general biochemistry before entering med school.I WAS INTELLECTUALLY EQUIPPED to know that plants sources are the best sources of absorbable nutrients for humans.
Anyways,let us come back to the documentary movie EARTHLINGS and let me attempt to put in my two cents about it here..THIS IS MEANT TO BE TAKEN AS CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM ALONE!
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1/The first nine minutes of the movie can be completely DONE away with,because this move is about SHOWING STARK REALITIES TO PEOPLE and there is no need to use the first nine minutes to try and prepare anyone at all.
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2/They generally prohibit kids below the age of 18 to watch this movie.I am a 35 year old female physician and I INSIST that all kids over 14 must watch it..IT IS SEVERELY DISTURBING TO WATCH,but i think ,the earlier you watch it ,the better you are able to honestly process this truth.The later in life you watch it,the more you are likely to MAKE EXCUSES for all your past years of turning a blind eye!
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3/ONE BIG WARNING IS...
this movie will CAUSE YOU TO GET QUEASY...
By the 22nd minute.(including the first nine min of fluff) I can assure you that atleast 20% of the viewers will THROW UP.
I am a doctor,and I cut open human bodies each day, and repair them and sew them again in an effort to save patients' lives and i see a lot of blood in the OR ...
and that much of previous exposure to blood and gore in the OR ,STILL WAS NOT ABLE TO PREPARE ME to NOT get queasy when i watched this documentary.
It is more about how as mammals WE ARE GENETICALLY PROGRAMMED TO IDENTIFY THE DISTRESS CALLS OF FELLOW MAMMALS AND FELLOW ANIMALS IN GENERAL...so,when you hear those cries in that documentary...YOU WILL TOTALLY PUKE,OUT OF SHEER ANXIETY.
By the 22nd minute.I PAUSED THE VIDEO.,me the doctor,who sees blood day in and day out,PAUSED and I tried meditating for five minutes telling myself to relax...telling myself that it is gonna be okay...because I was so nauseated,my heart was racing.I was almost gonna puke!
it took me five whole minutes of actually closing my eyes and even considering aborting to watch the video ,,,to CALM MYSELF DOWN.
after five minute break,I RESUMED WATCHING THIS VIDEO and then continued to watch it till the end..
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4/The background voice is JUOQUAIN (gosh,it is so difficult to spell,I know,what I typed out is the wrong spelling.:))) phoenix...WOW...what a beautiful name and I appreciate that he lent his voice to such a beautiful cause.thanks bud
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5/I feel that they missed out talking about CAGED HENS AND THEIR PLIGHT in egg farms, while talking about dairy products in this documentary.
So I am gonna go ahead and add a brief note about that.
FEMALE BIRDS aka HENS are imprisoned in tiny cages,one above another and they can't even move around and one hen is shitting over all the hens below.
all hens are being fed something that is NOT their natural diet and then,all their hard work is stolen off..we steal their eggs.TRY STEALING EGGS from a wild hen and you WILL BE PECKED TO DEATH.true case scenario!
it is distressing for any mother hen to watch helplessly when her eggs get stolen everyday.
Most hens HAVE PROLAPSED VAGINAS(yes,hens have vaginas too) by the end of their short distressed lives of laying eggs in cages where they can't even relax!
what do they do with the roosters?they get to your dinner tables ...
what happens to the hens after their egg laying capacity is gone?they get to your dinner tables too!
yeah,right,keep eating dead meat of distressed animals like that.
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6/one other thing they failed to mention or maybe they did and I phased out, IS THAT MOST FARM ANIMALS are fed the ground up remains of the"bad" parts of their very own fellow animals whose "good" parts are used for human consumption after slaughtering !so,you are forcing CANNIBALISM on already severely abused farm animals.
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7/One most proud moment in my life was when I entered med school.
Another proud moment in my life was when I became vegan in 2008...and that was when I TRULY FELT HONEST ABOUT MYSELF..and i felt less of a hypocrite.
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8/you all just need LOGIC to understand that ANIMALS ARE NOT OUR NATURAL DIET.
Are you able to chase down a buffalo and injure and kill it with your bare hands and bite into it and tear it to pieces and eat it bones ,blood and all?no?then,you are neither a carnivore nor is a cow your natural diet. A lion can do that and so,it deserves to eat a buffalo and it can and it will too! Unless ofcourse, we go around killing tigers too..
A pig is double your weight and are domestic descendants of wild boars.WILD BOARS.will attack you and kill you if you try to go anywhere near them.Without hunting weapons,we as humans are useless when it comes to boar hunting.Again,an animal heavier than us IS LOGICALLY speaking NOT our prey!
FISHIS NOT OUR NATURAL DIET..humans are not aquatic animals...needless.ANY ANIMAL IN THE WATER,,,cannot logically be our natural diet...end of argument .PERIOD!
Our natural diets are what we can procure on our own without weapons of any kind..We are perfectly capable of plucking a tomato/APPLE/banana/rice/beans off a plant and eat it...duh..three year and four year olds can do that.why?because fruits and veggies and tubers are our natural diet...
USE YOUR LOGICAL MIND to analyze what your natural diet is and eat only that...
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8/I think this is a 2005 documentary...we definitely need an updated version of this, sometime soon,if one hasn't already come out
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9/About the footage of suffragates that was shown in the first nine minutes of the documentary
again,suffragates were the women,who fought for equal rights for women ..
Prior to that movement,even after slaves were freed,BOTH WHITE AND BLACK WOMEN were counted as property and were essentially slaves being forced to do all the work with no dignity or power if they stood alone without being vaginally associated with some male member of society.
In the first nine minutes, the documentary tries to explain gender equality,human rights,human equality,the concept of earthlings and the concept of ANTISPECIEISM....
When the documentary propounds that no one must get PREFERENTIAL TREATMENT IN SOCIETY due to race or gender.what it wants to mean is,it is on the side of the suffragates,YEAH?
so,the earthlings documentary is on the side of women asking to be treated as equal citizens as men..yeah?
but,for some strange reason however,the suffragate footage was showed amidst footage of other ATROCITIES..so,it almost looked like they were implying that the suffragates were doing something WRONG by asking for women's rights...AS IF THEY MEANT THAT THE SUFFRAGATES ASKED FOR PREFERENTIAL TREATMENT FOR WOMEN...
so,yeah,either ways,the first nine minutes are shoddy,long winded and USELESS in my opinion.The first nine minutes need to be EDITED to be more crisp,more clear and less tiring and have more clarity in terms of expressing ideas...no poetry required!
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10/Also,most people watching this documentary are only noticing the plight of the animals in these "farms",but,in addiction to the distress of the animals,I also noticed that the people performing the slaughtering were very DISTRESSED THEMSELVES..

The people in charge of such "dirty" jobs are often very distressed themselves because they are needing to perform such gory acts as part of their job description and do it day in and day out.
And most of these "professional" slaughterers are ALMOST pausing to breathe while they attempt to cut throats and blood is all over them in torrents and they are just very distressed while the animals is in utter agony too.

Most often,we FAIL TO NOTICE the human aspect of it too,especially while watching such videos...these people are doing jobs that most people won't do..and most illegal immigrants become the targeted set of people for such jobs because they will take any job that will pay enough to stay in the country...
So,both humans and animals are SIMULTANEOUSLY exploited most commonly in such UNFAIR industries!
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11/Finally, big HUGS to Shaun monson FOR DECIDING TO MAKE this documentary and actually getting the word around.:))) BRAVO!
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MOST READ BLOG ENTRIES FROM MY BLOG http://ecology-blog.blogspot.com/ in the past year!

Here is a list of my top TEN most visited blogs on my ecology blog.

There are many more blogs entries which are widely visited as well,but I am just keeping the list short and mentioning the top ten entries.

These are stats relevant to only the past year!

I write about #health,  #ecology and #environment in my ecology blog.

here goes

Stop using Single serve plastic dinnerware-Use reu... Jul 8, 2010

http://ecology-blog.blogspot.com/2010/07/stop-using-single-serve-plastic.html

 

America,The Vanity factor,Cellulite,Suction cups t... Dec 24, 2009

http://ecology-blog.blogspot.com/2009/12/americathe-vanity-factorcellulitesuctio.html

 

Reuse your yogurt or coffee tubs as storage contai... Mar 21, 2009

http://ecology-blog.blogspot.com/2009/03/reuse-your-yogurt-or-coffee-tubs-as.html

 

 

A compost pit in your backyard Oct 31, 2008

http://ecology-blog.blogspot.com/2008/10/compost-pit-in-your-backyard.html

 

 

Porn addiction among males and how it is indirectl... Nov 18, 2009

http://ecology-blog.blogspot.com/2009/11/porn-addiction-among-males-and-how-it.html

 

 

Cooking gas from compost and animal fecal wastes Mar 27, 2009

 http://ecology-blog.blogspot.com/2009/03/cooking-gas-from-compost-and-animal.html

 

 

Why my ecology posts are simple and very basic Mar 27, 2009

http://ecology-blog.blogspot.com/2009/03/why-my-ecology-posts-are-simple-and.html

 

About Circumcision and STDs -Health post-Vestigial... Mar 27, 2009 http://ecologyblog.blogspot.com/2009/03/about-circumcision-and-stds-health-post.html

 

Discussing sexual techniques with friends,Kissing ... Dec 24, 2009

http://ecology-blog.blogspot.com/2009/12/discussing-sexual-techniques-with.html

 

Air drying your dishes is a great way to save ener... Feb 21, 2009

http://ecology-blog.blogspot.com/2009/02/blog-post.html

A whopping sixty THOUSAND and eight hundred odd people have google PLUSEd my poetry and poise blog in two days!how?

In the past two days something CURIOUS has happened.
A whopping SIXTY thousand eight hundred and forty eight people have
google plused my
POETRY AND POISE BLOG.
whoa!
GOOGLE kept asking me to join google plus and I have NOT joined so far.
so,I really wonder how my blogs are actually visible on the google
plus network enabling people to GOOGLE PLUS them!
Is my poetry and poise blog being featured on google plus?
What is happening?
baffled,surprised and honored all at the same time.
thanks to all google plus members who have read,liked and google
plused various blog entries of mine!
HONORED .
I do write six different blogs,and you can read all of them here
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I also tweet here
twitter.com/lecinqblog
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You can always say hi to me on twitter or email me even.
hugs and cheers to all readers.

Garden update-peanut plants

yes,peanut plants..not pea plants,I mean, PEANUT plants...
In some countries, they call peanuts, GROUNDNUTS..coz these nuts grow
in underground pods...
These are root modifications..
Also,all legumes FIX NITROGEN..
AND which is why,legumes kinda RE-ENRICH the soil , by converting air
nitrogen to soil nitrogen..
they fix nitrogen back in the soil.
needless ,I had to try out this idea.plant these nitrogen fixing plants.

Needless,while I assembled by pots using recycled material,I kinda
loosened up the soil,mixed it up with my old treated veggie garbage
and then while planting, I placed a peanut pod in each pot,somewhere
in mid depth of soil filling.

for a month,I waited and eagerly expected peanut plants to come out..
they never did.
And ,months later,after the loose soil kinda settled down at a lower
level,I noticed,two strange sprouts in two pots..and on closer
examination,the sprouts were emerging from PEANUTS!
whoa..what happiness!

I let them grow out..

Also,I DON'T WATER MY PLANTS AT ALL.
I am such a negligent plant parent..

Actually,I wanted to see how the plants responded to on and off water
that spills into the pots during thunderstroms WHICH WERE FAR TOO
FREQUENT back then,even now...rains out of the blue here!

hmmm...and i cheated and watered them on two different occasions in a
couple of months, when it got too too sunny.

Anways,long story short..ONE PLANT GREW BIG ENOUGH...NICE LUSH GREEN LEAVES..

And then ofcourse, i let all three surviving plants -the sweet potato
plant,the spinach plant and the peanut plant ALL DIE .due to lack of
watering in the past few weeks...

either ways, I am moving out and they would have died after I
left...so yeah,,,why not let them die while I am here,no?(stupid sad
logic-my way of coping)whatever

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Garden Update-Death of the Sweet potato vines!

Actually my sweet potato vines,they died almost more than 7weeks ago.
I did the mistake of trying to transplant fully grown,very very long
vines into newer pots so that I can place them in the balcony.

My balcony is VERY VERY WINDY...and needless ,within a day of placing
the REPOTTED long adult vines in the balcony,the wind SNAPPED most of
the vines-and infact,the wind possibly was so fierce during the night
after transplantation,it uprooted all the repotted vines(roots and
all) and the next morning,to my horror, I found them DANGLING in
air,away from the pots.
GREAT!

Actually,NOT so great :(( (insert very sad face)
The sweet potato vines were the only PROUD GLORY of my mini apartment
garden...hmmmm.sigh.

Guilty as charged.
I killed perfectly healthy vines-with my thoughtless transplantation.

Honestly,I didn't realize that my balcony WAS THAT SUPER-WINDY,till
ofcourse,the vine uprooting incident happened.
Hopefully,lesson learned.

Why did I transplant them in the first place you might ask!
Actually,I had these sweet potato vines growing in one of my
superbright bathrooms on the SUNRISE side-where they could catch
adequate sunlight each morning during and after sunrise.
Since, I live alone and My apartment has two bathrooms,I figured that
I could make good use of the space and sunlight in the bathroom that i
WAS NOT using .It was a great idea,too,especially for the sweet potato
vines.
They seem to grow better in partial shaded areas,like say,my
bathroom,which was essentially a covered area for most part except for
the bright window in the bathroom.
These vines tolerated INDOOR conditions so well.for so long too.

I would highly suggest SWEET POTATO VINES to all INDOOR PLANT enthusiasts.

I have tried and tested them for almost a year indoors and they
survived very very well inside the apartment.They even thrived under
my OVERENTHUSIASTIC OVERWATERING OF THE POTS.

So,why did i decide to transplant them?
well,the vines grew so tall,they were visible through the windows and
I was worried that my neighbors might think that I am trying to grow
certain types of secret plants that people usually grow in bathrooms.I
AM AGAINST USE OF ANY ADDICTIVE SUBSTANCES...totally..really.
I mean.I wanted to show my neighbors that I AM ONLY GROWING SWEET
POTATO PLANTS..i am a goody goody person...
HMMMM.
Hence,the decision to replant them outside and also,CLEAN UP AND
RECLAIM my spare bathroom for ummm,bathroom uses!

Anyways,long story short!death of vines!

So,well,after the death of my old sweet potato vines,I kinda was too
sad to plant new ones.Then,finally,last week,I planted new
ones,outside .I don't OVERWATER THEM...and they don't seem to grow as
fast if you don't water them adequately!
They are still alive though!yay,cheers!

Tags:kitchen_garden,gardening,indoor_plants,Sweet_potato_vines,apartment_garden,aquaponics,hydroponics,plants,sunlight,watering_plants,wind_and_plant_protection

INJUDICIOUS AND IRRESPONSIBLE USE OF CLINGWRAP-single use plastics and how to avoid using them!

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What is clingwrap?
It is a very very thin layer of plastic which kinda clings to the
things it is used to wrap.The clinging quality comes from the static
electricity that exists on its surface.
NOW,what is clingwrap mostly used for?To keep things from losing
moisture,To keep things moist by providing a physical barrier from air
drying things out.

You often see people using cling wrap to cover up their pasta dough or
pastry dough while they rest it.So,essentially ,they are using a piece
of plastic that takes THOUSANDS OF YEARS to degrade ,to keep things
from losing moisture for a MERE FEW HOURS.
Once that resting period for the dough is over, people ,just remove
the clingwrap and promptly THROW IT WAY ..They don't RE-USE that cling
wrap.
So,CLINGWRAP qualifies as SINGLE USE PLASTIC.

So,CLING-WRAP-USERS are building up the world's plastic waste that
takes thousands of years to degrade, just so that their ball of dough
doesn't dry out?WTF.

Also,commerical food stalls are using clingwrap to keep their
sandwiches from drying out.Again,once the consumer eats up the
sandwich ,the clingwrap promptly goes to the garbage and landfill and
then takes THOUSANDS OF YEARS TO DEGRADE.

seriously,,,WTF!

Supermarkets are using cling wrap to cover up their fruit punnetts,so
that their fruit stays plump and moist for longer..Again,once the
buyer buys the punnett and opens up the clingwrap and consumes the
fruits,not only the clingwrap but the punnett too, goes into the bin,
from where it goes to the landfill and then takes thousands of years
to degrade.

Again,Even if this clingwrap is of the RECYCLABLE VARIETY,most of it
never really gets segragated by users into the degradable bin and sent
out seperately to the recycling center.

Even if this clingwrap essentially does get recycled on the odd chance
,how many times is it re-recyclable? Can it be recycled repeatedly
forever?or does it eventually get sent to the landfill after one
recycling and reuse?

In my personal opinion,USING CLINGWRAP to keep things moist for a few
hours is a BAD PRACTICE AND AKIN TO SINGLE USE PLASTIC USAGE.

What is the solution/replacement for CLINGWRAP AND SINGLE USE PLASTICS?

For keeping dough moist-All you need to do is put your pasta dough
into a bowl and cover it with a ceramic or metal lid.The ceramic or
metal lid is reusable and washable and is VERY EFFECTIVE in keeping
the dough moist till you are next ready to use it.

For keeping sandwiches moist at a store-PAPER BASED or butter paper
based sandwich boxes work so well to keep sandwiches or other foods
moist.PAPER is definitely recyclable ,so is, butter paper or waxed
paper.And surely,such packaging material DOESN'T take 1000 years to
degrade even if they don't get recycled!


For covering fruit punnetts in supermarkets-Here I am thinking real
hard of a suitable packaging material, that not only keeps fruit in
place inside the punnett ,but also prevents the fruit from dehydrating
quicker and well,is easy for the personnel to pack fruit in! HMMM

What were supermarkets doing for fruit before clingwrap came into such
wide usage?
They just used to load them up in large crates and customers would
just PICK up their choicest fruit and buy them..
.I see no harm in doing so even now,instead of using lots of
NON-BIODEGRADABLE PUNNETTS for fruit!what a waste!
Just hire personnel to sort fruit into EXTREMELY
RIPE,MODERATELY RIPE AND UNRIPE and place them in separate crates on
the floor at the supermarket.

The personnel that are usually in charge of packaging
fruit into punnetts can now be incharge of sorting fruits into
crates.That way, all fruits don't ripen quick and together and get
wasted.and that way,over-ripe fruits that are still edible but might
spoil in the near future, can easily be picked out and disposed off to
homeless shelters or be sold of at a lower price .Good idea?yes!

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#is_cling_wrap_recyclable,#how_long_does_cling_wrap_take_to_degrade,#single_use_plastic,How_to_keep_dough_moist_while_resting,#how_to_display_fruits_in_supermarkets,#sandwich_packaging_solutions,#segregated_garbage_disposal,#garbage_recycling,#recycling
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Garden update-SPINACH SUCCESS

I have been making garden update blogs here on the ecology blog for
over a month now.
And I have been lamenting about how MY OVERWATERING of the pots is
causing the roots to rot and the spinach plants to die.
well,guess what,
upon my fifth attempt and carefully planting new taproots of spinach
with little leaf stubs in multiple pots and carefully UNDERwatering
them,I am now the PROUD mother of six spinach plants...
funny how i call myself their mother when infact they are my
mother.They are gonna feed me super nutritious leaves very
soon.CHEERS.
Tags:gardening,kitchen_garden,spinach,garden_update,How_to_grow_spinach_plants_in_pots

Garden update-Sweet potato vines

Well,if there is one thing that grows without much care in my
mini-apartment garden,it is sweetpotato vines.
Yes,the sweetpotato plant grows out in a vine--atleast some varieties.
Yes,the leaves are edible-raw and cooked..
yes,the plants are just PLAIN BEAUTIFUL-with their ivy shaped reddish
green lush leaves.
The thing is,when I buy sweetpotato,I don't manage to use them right
away,so they sit on the kitchen shelves for days and some of them give
out red shoots.
so,I end up cutting out those sweetpotato bits that have given out
shoots and plant them.
within days, I end up with lush greens
One reason why the sweetpotato plant survives in my mini-garden is coz
the plant is known to survive even if planted in just nutrient
water(no real soil,whatsoever)...
That is right,IT CAN SURVIVE in water logged conditions.
So,while I am KILLING MY SPINACH with OVERWATERING my pots and
waterlogging the soil,THE SAME,seems to HELP the sweetpotato vines to
flourish.
Right now,THE ONLY PLANTS IN FULL FLOURISH in my mini-garden are the
sweetpotato vines..
so,yeah..have I eaten them?yeah,kinda.
.THEY ARE SHARP tasting when raw..good for salads for sure...eat them,eat them.
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GARDEN UPDATE-The spinach-part4?

The spinach plants are dead.
After just the day when i thought I have finally managed to grown them in a pot
Well,my fourth attempt this was.
I waited and DIDN'T OVERWATER them..and waited and waited ,till baby
leaves started appearing.
And a day too early,I DECIDED that i SUCCEEDED...So,I cut away the
shriveled larger leaves that were there when I planted the
taproot..and then,IN A FIT OF HAPPY EXHILARATION,I possibly
OVERWATERED my stubs with the baby leaves.
BOOM,
two days later,THE PLANTS DIED ON ME..
FOURTH ATTEMPT AT GROWING SPINACH FROM TAPROOT STUBS=FAILURE.
thanqvery much
bows to Crowds
Stifles a tear
MOVES ON...
trying once more
this time,maybe with seeds.
btw,,In other good news..
i managed to grow RED AMARANTH using this technique..so,yeah,all is
NOT LOST in my mini-garden.
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Spinach gardening

Can spinach be grown in pots? mmmmm....
See,why do we grow spinach?
so that we can eat them later?
why do we want to eat spinach on a regular basis?

because they are a SUPERFOOD and a natural diet SOURCE that meets so
many of our nutritional needs-iron,protein,vitamins,fiber all in one
and OH SO SUPERTASTY TOO

But,for spinach to pack such nutrition it needs to grow in NUTRITIOUS
SOIL...much like..in order for a pregnant woman to produce adequate
nutritioius milk, she must first have those fat reserves in her body
which come from eating more than just for herself during herself,for
here and also the fetus and the future breastfeeding newborn.

So,yeah,being a physician like I am, Just will end up quoting MEDICINE
ANALOGIES even in a gardening blog.so,,enjoy my MEDICAL ANALOGIES IF
YOU WILL

coming back to spinach now..

Yeah..for very long now I have been trying to do a MINI GARDEN IN MY
APARTMENT with all recycled products-including the pots I grow the
plants in and the soil which I constantly recharge with my own wet or
biological garbage.

Some herbs seems to be doing okay in a POTTED mini balcony
environment..but I HAVE HAD TOUGH TIMES WITH TRYING TO GROW SPINACH.
I have been trying this mini garden concept ON AND OFF in the past
year in the apartment i currently live in. and I have tried growing
spinach from a preexisting bunch which i denude of bigger leaves and
plant the rest...FAILED THREE TIMES..fourth time now seems to become a
success.

HOW AND WHY?
One little detail about my gardening methods-
I will plant anything into the soil which has a root...and if at all
the plant grows out due to an intact root system fine...If not..then
well,whatever i planted is manure.
speaking of spinach,I buy my spinach bunches from a FARMER'S MARKET
and so,mostly many bunches end up having ROOTS intact on the sale
counter.
I choose bunches with TAP root intact,,and get them home.
All this time my method has been to try to pluck off most leaves and
leave out the smaller ones on the root and stem and plant the whole
lot..
IT WORKS...coz THE NEW SMALLER LEAVES DO START appearing.
All these three times that i failed what I did was OVERWATER the soil
to the point of WATERLOGGING THE SOIL...each day
till finally THE STEM ROTS and the plant dies...

hmmmmm.
So, now..I UNDERWATER THE SPINACH POT and for the first time and upon
my THIRD/4th attempt to grown spinach...NEW SMALL leaves HAVE appeared
again all over again..
NOW, I MUST RESIST THE TEMPTATION to overwater and WATERLOG THE
SURFACE SOIL...wait...REFRAIN and
I am serious about this..
I WANT A SPINACH PLANT IN MY HOUSE...I WANT IT TO GROW AND THRIVE...
I WANT TO GET BETTER AT GARDENING and i am LEARNING ON MY
OWN...without books,gardening blogs or anything else...
I am doing this with just my intelligence and my high school botany
knowledge to go by and I am applying my MEDICAL DEGREE analogies into
gardening too!
HAPPY GARDENING EVERYONE!
I am doing my own research and am GOING TO DEVELOP MY OWN METHODS and
then teach everyone? A true daughter of LEONARDO DA VINCI AND MADAM
CURIE....:))))
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Filthy bathtubs and Filthy public baths-How a standing bath scores over a shower and a soaking bath.Also a note on RIVER POLLUTION!

It was an archaic time in history when PUBLIC BATHS/BATHTUBS/RIVER
BATHING were a norm.
A time wherein electricity was not yet available in each home to
facilitate pumping of water from ground level using a electric motor
to an overhead tank and then by virture of the force of potential
energy and gravity, water would then easily flow down to all the taps
inside the house.

The concept of public baths where large number of people get into the
same body of water(which is essentially not a flowing body of water
like a river) is FROM A TIME in history WHERE there was no indoor
plumbing technology or there was no running water either.Personally, i
think the PUBLIC BATH system, is VERY UNHYGENIC.
And not to mention, COMPLETE BREACH OF PRIVACY.No matter how hot the
water in a public bath is, would you still knowingly go sit in hot
water with SHIT intermixed? or vaginal and testicular secretions
intermixed?

They tout the public bath as A communal experience and such.(some
touristy gimmickery that)
BUT SEE, we rather NOT HAVE SUCH communal experiences..We better, take
clean baths in the privacy of our own bathrooms and THEN,go have a
COMMUNAL PARTY to have that communal experience.No need to share filth
and GENITALIA GERMS in the process of a "communal"bath!

SPEAKING OF RIVER BATHS,
The concept of People taking bath on the river shore or stream shore
is touted as yet another communal experience but is a far cleaner
experience compared to a public bath because THE WATER IS continually
flowing away, so a new batch of fresh water is constantly at your
disposal at a given point on the river shore.

So, RIVER BATHING is better than a PUBLIC BATH system(which to my
horror is still prevelant in japan and middle east hamams-FILTHY! and
unnecessary)

Again a little more about a RIVER BATH to discuss the
ENVIRONMENTAL/WATER POLLUTION aspect of it.

If you are using detergants or modern soaps on a river shore ,YOU ARE
POLLUTING a fresh water source .The filthy water flows down to other
cities and places down the flow route of the river.
PLEASE STOP DOING THAT!
Stop using soaps and detergants on a river or stream bank.
I was horrified to watch so many people scrubbing themselves with soap
before taking A dip in their holy river(which alas is so filled with
human filth,it is not really that "holy" anymore!

Again, A BATHTUB also is from a time in history where there was no
indoor plumbing or running water and if you had to clean your whole
body, you would have to fill up a bathtub with water, sit in it and
clean it in however fashion the best you can.
I am Suddenly reminded of those classic english novels about COAL
WORKERS, who would come home all covered in coal dust and filth and
their wives would fill up a bathtub for them..hmmmmm.sigh.

But a bathtub method is very flithy, given that you are soaking in
your own filth water with your own secretions(sweat and others) that
you just scrubbed off, the skin flakes and the dirt.
Surely the most inefficient and filthy method of cleaning yourself.

Also about the sitting position in a bathtub,
In a bathtub, you are sitting down, causing the vagina(if are
genotypically female) to be horizontally oriented and the vaginal
opening directly in the water, allowing filthy water to enter it.Also,
the male urinary passage opening also ends up in a semi horizontal
position immersed in the filthy water with the same results.
Say hello to yeast infections and URINARY TRACT INFECTIONS,if you are
soaking in a bathtub .I AM A PHYSICIAN and I beg you to stop having
those filthy bathtub soaks..downright filthy!
When you are standing up and taking a shower, the vaginal or urinary
openings are directed downwards with the water flowing from above,
leaving little chance for filthy water to forcibly enter these
openings.result is lesser chances of infections.

Going back and SPEAKING OF a time with no running water inside houses,
Yes, there were other CLEANER alternatives to a bathtub, even when
indoor plumbing or running water was NOT available.
And ,this was to just TAKE A STANDING BATH OR SHOWER.
This method of bathing was much prevelant in the indian subcontinent
prior to electricity.
Each home would have a deep water or shallow water well, and they
would draw out water using a pulley system with buckets.They would
then heat this water over wooden fire copper boilers(copper being such
a great conductor of heat)

They then would bring in buckets of hot/warm water into a bathroom a
room with a gutter system on the floor that lets out filthy water to
the garden(great way to recycle water too given that they used organic
cleaning products to bathe rather than chemical soap back then)

They would then use a mug or jug to lift out and pour water on
themself to make the body or hair wet first, then scrub with soap or
cleaning agents, then use the next few jugs of CLEAN water to wash
that soapy scum off their body.
This method is easily adaptable to a modern bathroom, where we
colllect hotwater in buckets and then proceed to take a standing bath.

This method of a STANDING BATH, is far more CLEANER AND FRESHER and
conserves much much more water than SOAKING IN YOUR OWN FILTH IN A
BATH TUB and also uses just two to three buckets of water, unlike a
SHOWER HEAD shower that continues to waste water the whole time you
are in the bathroom even when you don't need water on your body
especially when you are scrubbing with soap or shampoo.

And the question that BEGS TO BE ASKED ! Why am I writing a long blog
entry about SHOWER TECHNIQUES?

I am writing this blog entry primarily because, even to this day, in
the US, SOAKING IN A BATH TUB is marketed as some great exercise of
unwinding.The bathtub is too romanticized and the whole industry of
bath salts that eggs all women to SOAK IN THEIR OWN FILTH with salts
is DOWNRIGHT REVOLTING.And to give bath salts to a woman for women's
day or mothers day or valentines day is ridiculously funny to me.

As a female physician, who knows her As and Bs I just had to intervene
and present the truth to everyone.

As far as chemistry is concerned, PEOPLE NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT salts
DO NOT have a capacity to REMOVE DIRT...
ONLY SOAPS have the capacity to CHEMICALLY surround dirt and remove
it from the body.
So the whole concept of BATH SALTS doing wonders is just IN ONE BIG
BOGUS CLAIM.
aND LADIES, please stop soaking in your own filth?
Go take a good STANDING BATH instead...then sit down to music and
books TO UNWIND.K?

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Father>xchromosome>daughter

The only way a man passes his X chromosome to the next generation is
by having a daughter.Becoming A daughter's father is a big thing!
............................
Tags:Genetics,fertilization,father_daughter_genetics,x_chromosome

your pets don't get to have regular sex!

When you have a pet,what you are doing is FORCE an adult animal of
another species into a lifetime of FORCED CELIBACY for your
fun!...............................
Tags:pets,dogs,pet_sex,forced_celibacy_for_your_pet_dog

Tips for desert camping-February 2008-LETTERS TO MR.U

Tips for desert camping-February 2008-LETTERS TO MR.U

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I am starting to think that i like you very much--which explains why i am going so far as trying to mail you a survivor's guide in the desert...The doctor in me just had to say this..LOL

Mosquitoes

--Bugs--Adequate bug protection

Hydration

--Large stocks of pure water or water into which you dissolve salt and sugar yourself-Bananas and oranges can make sure you get back your lost potassium and sodium aka the electrolytes-(the last thing you want to drink is gat ora de or other drinks loaded with preservatives, artificial colors, citric acid etc etc---)

Nutrition

-Yet again bananas are good...Eat well.Some fresh tomatoes and somegood pasta would do the trick too .Cucumber and tomato and cold pasta salad perhaps?

adequate clothing that covers as much of your body as possible

--That helps prevents sunburn and its carcinogenic effects..Sunscreens are great--but then, long sleeved and full length pants can easily be the best or in this case the better option for protection from the sun.With your kind of skin.. please stop worrying about trying to tan it and start worrying about protecting it from the sun .

Snakes

The desert is teeming with snakes.. kraits..and they crawl up your vehicle too..so hmmmmmm...I have no idea..no tips in this dept..but i am worried about the snakes...please be careful..

yeah btw..don't forget to take a lot of books with you ...please do so ..and yeah your camera too ....

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MY 2012 POSTNOTE for the blog!!!

The thing is, I wrote this email to him in 2008, and quite forgot that i even wrote it..Funnily, in 2012, he is focused on nutrution,water,bug protection and a camera, just like i adviced, even outside the desert..LOL..sadly, we are both in places that are far , far away from each other.so,anyways,atleast, my advice stays close to his heart.that's good enough :)))

Also,sometime from 2010 to 2012, he also finally started COOKING his own meals and well, the "full sleeved shirt" shirt advice is also being followed TOO.

TALKING ABOUT CHANGE and RETROGRESSIVE METAMORPHOSIS--FEB 2008-LETTERS TO MR.U

TALKING ABOUT CHANGE and RETROGRESSIVE METAMORPHOSIS--FEB 2008-LETTERS TO MR.U

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You have changed so much as a person in the past years

..Not that i ever knew you personally in the past... but well..whatever little i thought i knew which i could relate to ... all that is slowly going away...You are changing ..changing ....changing ... and it has been rapid..Change is a good thing... i understand that ...change is inevitable ...i understand that too...Change is a sign of personal growth too...but then..but then..it can sometimes be altering in a retrogressive way....

It is not "becoming" of your true spirit to change this way ...really!!!

Awwww...MAYBE I AM WARPED IN MY HEAD TO WRITE ALL KINDSA CRAPPY STUFF IN A EMAIL AND MAIL IT TO SOMEONE..WHO IF HE HAD READ THIS SAME LETTER TWO YEARS AGO WOULD NOT REACT THE SAME WAY HE WOULD NOW..and i think that at this point of time..given the fact that you have changed the way you have changed..i might even suspect that you might laugh at this heartfelt piece of communication.hmmm

Don't change....Please!!!Please?

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MY 2012 POSTNOTE for the blog!!!

I KEPT emailing him each time i felt that he was changed and he would have a comeback for me with "no, I am not changed.I am just the same.it just LOOKS LIKE I AM CHANGED, but i am NOT"

SPEAKING OF CHANGE, i think we all change, he has changed, i have changed and at the end of the changes if we end up being very different people then we go our different ways and pretend like we never were similar ever..end of story,no?surely.

Change is good, but IT MUST BE FOR THE BETTER...not some retrogressive metamorphesis.

About sexy haircuts,pausch,debakey,my blogs and a city-July 2008-LETTERS TO MR.U

About sexy haircuts,pausch,debakey,my blogs and a city-July 2008-LETTERS TO MR.U

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Heya

I absolutely dig the new haircut.Infact i wrote a blog entry about it coz as it was just too much of a turn on for me to let it go by without mention.

I hear that you dedicated xxxxx to Late Randy Pausch...That was very thoughtful.

I was actually going to mail you to ask if you could mention him in your blog someway.It was great to know that you had already dedicated axxxxxxxxx to him by the time i decided to mail you about it.Nice to know someone does things without being asked for.

hmmmmmmm.Speaking of my fav people passing away.Dr.Debakey, passed away at the age of 90 plus in houston.I was anticipating meeting him up in nov in houston..Too bad he passed away before i could..Sad..dotcha think.Michael De Bakey was a pioneer cardiologist and surgeons always inspire me.

BTw,this might seem out of context, but I just have no idea who else to say this to ..but I miss xxxxxx city so so so so so so much.

Seriously.I love xxxx city..I desperately wish i could go back and live there forever.There is something in the air there.Awwwww,I so badly want to go and hug the xxxxxxxxxxx

anyways,

Take care and keep the inquisitive spirit going.

Love

xxxxxx

btw,

My blogs at blogspot

An antidote to anger

The ultimate Vegetarian cookblog

poetry and poise and a little bit of prose too

The Ecology blog-Healthier lifestyle choices

The Not so daily ramble blog

hugs and talk to you later

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MY 2012 POSTNOTE for the blog!!!

Actually,I wrote a blog entry about PAUSCH in my blog back then , and after that he dedicated something to pausch and then i WROTE HIM this email after he had already dedicated something to him.

if you go see my blogs from then, you will spot the PAUSCH AND BAKEY BLOGS Which date prior to this email that i wrote him.

funny, how blogs and emails kinda JOURNAL our thoughts and life in such a cute manner.no?btw, it is cute how i call him as "someone who does things before being asked to do" He can be thoughtful like that on so many occasions..:))) INADVERTANTLY OFCOURSE

ABOUT NEEDING A HUG-MY "head on the shoulder" FETISH-February 2008-LETTERS TO MR.U

ABOUT NEEDING A HUG-MY "head on the shoulder" FETISH-February 2008-LETTERS TO MR.U

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the saddest part is i need a hug..I needed a hug yesterday too...I have been needing a tight hug for the past three days...I have been wanting to lay my head on the shoulder of this tall lanky guy with this sturdy shoulder hiding under that grey tshirt..i want to lay my head there on that shoulder and perhaps shed a silent tear which wets that grey t shirt(funny why this fantasy of mine always involves a grey t shirt--I never happen to visually fantasize the face of anyone ...i just visualize this shoulder---this torso wearing a xxxx grey tshirt and me laying my head there and silently shedding a tear...and nestling here in the left supraclavicular region of this grey t shirted torso)

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MY 2012 POSTNOTE for the blog!!!

It was quite UNNERVING to read this email that i wrote to MR.U..coz , after mr.u, there was one mr.green TO WHOM i used to write emails and FUNNILY, in letters to MR.GREEN too, I mention the same need to lay my head on his shoulder...

SO,now,So I HAVE COME TO THE CONCLUSION THAT I HAVE A "head on the shoulder" fetish..I like laying my head on the shoulder of the guy I AM EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED TO...

frankly , after reading this email, I AM QUITE EMBARASSED..I thought that this "head on the shoulder" syndrome was something very unique that me and mr.green had,

but, apparently NOT...i seem to have had the same fetish prior to mr.green with mr.u AS WELL...hmmmm..also, i have written similar letters to mr.green asking for an email hug...hmmm.

so , essentially, when i get emotionally needy,

a/i like hugs

b/i like to lay my head on the guy's shoulder.

c/it also appears that i like shedding tears on the shirts of the guy i am with(geez..what the fuck!)

Also, if you have read my other blog entries under the LETTERS TO MR.U series, you will know that i also call mr.u as MR.GREY...due to the GREY TSHIRT fetish i guess.geezus...seriously.

i am the FETISH QUEEN now..seriously embarassed ,coz,it doesn't matter who the guy is..I JUST LIKE PUTTING MY HEAD ON SOMEONE'S SHOULDER AND CRYING ..geezus...

About CIGARS AND WHISKY, me being a hug addict,and pep talk-August 2008-LETTERS TO MR.U

About CIGARS AND WHISKY, me being a hug addict,and pep talk-August 2008-LETTERS TO MR.U

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I am not drunk(I don't drink) and yet, I am happily rambling away in an email to a person xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

sigh..I think i am sleepy too ..

kinda

BTw..speaking of drunk...

A single whisky each day still qualifies you as someone dependant on alchohol.

I would really appreciate if you seriously consider quitting drinking and smoking this way

..It just won't do you good at all , smoking away stupid cigars in hot tubs with women you are not personally related to and drinking a whisky each night just to unwind.Whisky is hard liquor and the fact that you look at it as a way of unwinding , indicates addicitive tendencies..

Sweetie, You don't want alchohol and nicotine.You don't need them.

Can you go back to your 19 yr old self who knew the problems of addiction and was this sober lil sweetie.

Meanwhile. Ofcourse, I need a hug..I need a hug each morning and hug every night.I need someone beside me who i can hug when i wake in the night sweating out at how i wasted the past fifteen years..Thank god i managed to become a doc..Otherwise that would have been a lifelong regret...Thank god..no no,, I don't believe in god..but i do use that phrase a lot..LOL

hugs to you..

I need hugs back.

I am Le Cinq blog on blogger now...I am not blogging AT XXXXXX anymore.k?

love ,

btw..Can you give me back some pep talk..I so need it .I so so need some hugs and tons of pep talk.Ya know.

bye

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MY 2012 POSTNOTE for the blog!!

I JUST read this email and i am like, our emails are like back and forth conversations and there is a certain amount of comfort level that comes from being of a similar personality and being like buddies ...anyways.

I AM SUCH A HUG ADDICT, NO? i mean, i have written similar letters to MR.GREEN too asking for hugs..

so , essentially, my COMMON theme in emotional letters is, WANTING TO PLACE MY HEAD ON HIS SHOULDER and me wanting hugs and me wanting PEP talks and btw..I ONLY ask the men whom I am sure CAN DELIVER ..

:))))

ABOUT A HAT-February 2008-LETTERS TO MR.U

ABOUT A HAT-February 2008-LETTERS TO MR.U

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A hat is better than those ridiculous looking large shady glasses that you seem to sport these days....those glasses make you look like yet another empty headed pretty boy from holly land...and you are far from that..you are smart, intelligent, unique and filled with life and love...don't change sweety..don't change for the silly little fools in xxxxxxxx

much love and many hugs from me

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MY 2012 POSTNOTE for the blog!!!

FUNNY HOW, I TOLD HIM TO WEAR A HAT WAY BACK IN 2008 IN AN EMAIL.

I QUITE FORGOT ABOUT MY "HAT" ADVICE within months of me emailing him.

fUNNILY,NOW IN 2012,HE IS WALKING AROUND WEARING A HAT AND NO GOGGLES(just like I asked him to),BUT,NOW, ME MYSELF FIND IT so funny and so phony, and even more "hollyland-western movie" gimmicky.The HAT advice was for another occasion,another year,not now, in the city.geee!

DUDE,i told you to wear a hat in the desert , not in NYC OR LA..GEEZUS.no seriously, this hat thing is NOT funny!

ya know what, on top of that he gets angry with questions like "what is with the hat?"

I am like, "a hat is practical if you are walking in the desert in serious sunlight, not in the city pollution.This hat wearing is causing scalp sweating,stinking and oily scalp problems too."

anyways,he is bent upon wearing the same clothes over and over, and the hat too..he has his phases.what can I do.